Does Your Story Pass “The Bechdel Test”?


So this is a thing—a thing that you, as a writer, should know about. According toWikipedia:
The Bechdel Test, credited to Liz Wallace, was introduced in Alison Bechdel’s comic strip Dykes to Watch Out For. In a 1985 strip titled “The Rule,” an unnamed female character says that she only watches a movie if it satisfies the following requirements: (1) It has to have at least two women in it, (2) who talk to each other, (3) about something besides a man.
People thought this was funny because it was sort of a true critique of Hollywood.
Then they thought, “Wow. If this is true critique, that’s pretty messed up.”
Thus the “Bechdel Test” was born as a sort of litmus test to find out how much Hollywood directors really cared about their female characters.
To pass the Bechdel Test, a movie:
  1. Has to have at least two women
  2. Who talk to each other
  3. About something besides a man
It seems simple, and yet it’s surprisingly difficult for Hollywood films to pass this test.
In fact, a whole web site has been set up to track which Hollywood films pass the test. Some vbloggers have also picked up on the test, such as this excellent “Feminist Frequency” episode.
In my humble opinion, all writers—screenwriters, novelists, short story writers—should be aware of the Bechdel Test and its implications… not because we shouldn’t have scenes where two women talk about a man, but because holding the test and its implications in mind can possibly free up more dramatic potential for scenes and avoid cliche.
Think about the opening scene for Swingers, for example, which is dramatic gold. The reason? It’s the opposite of the trope the Bechdel Test critiques, i.e., it’s unusual for two men to be portrayed as talking about a woman, which is why the film and its characters struck such a chord for people right from the opening sequence.

Curiousity Cocktails from Mars Science Laboratory Engineers


Highbrow musical compositions aside, when the rubber hits the road, I’m a man who enjoys his drink.  My love of Tiki concoctions sometimes walks that thin cliff’s edge between a light hangover and insanity.  Then there is, of course, The Head (which is still lurking in my garage).
It’s probably no secret that my day job is at NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory.  If it was, well, these were the clues…  With a week to go until the MSL landing and in the spirit of merging art and science, I wanted to share a little project that my friends and I undertook.
I now present to you the official unofficial Mars Science Laboratory cocktails!

Here’s Hoping (that we actually land…)

  • 1 lime
  • 1 3/4 ounce New Make Rye
  • 1 ounce Campari
  • 1/2 oz simple syrup
  • 1 Luxardo maraschino cherry with small scoup of liquid
A little aperitif created by Kerri Anderson (honorary JPL engineer).  Shake over ice. Add cherry and liquid to martini glass before pouring in cocktail.

Little Green Man

  • 0.5 oz Pernod
  • 0.5 oz light rum
  • 1/2 lime
  • 1 sugar cube (with a drop of green food coloring if desired)
This is something that I put together.  If you’re a fan of black licorice or absinth, you should enjoy this one.  Pour Pernod over ice to cloud before combining with rum. Pour in shot glass over sugar cube.

MSL Flaming Aeroshell

  • 2 parts Silver Tequila
  • 1 part Cherry Heering Liquor
  • Juice of 1 Lime
  • Squeeze of blood orange juice
  • Splash of grenadine
  • Dash of salt
  • Dash of cayenne pepper
  • Ice
Scott Nowak created this fantastic Tiki inspired punch.  Pour ingredients into a punch bowl filled with ice.  Cut lime in half and clean out pulp after it has been squeezed. Fill with 151 rum. Float lime shell on cocktail. Light 151 on fire for flaming aeroshell effect.

Massive Angle of Attack

  • 4 parts spiced cranberry cider
  • 3 parts rum
  • 2 parts amaretto
  • 1 sugar cube soaked in high proof rum on a spoon per drink/glass
What can we say, we were all pyromaniacs growing up…  Mike Burger and Maggie Scholtz created this one.  Basically you have to get the burning sugar cube into the glass without lighting the top of the drink on fire (or else you “burn up”).

Little Green Men

  • 6 parts vodka
  • 4 parts Midori melon liqueur
  • 2 parts triple sec
  • 1 part lime juice
  • Pop Rocks
Ethan Post created this shot totally independent of mine.  Shake ingredients together and serve in shot glasses rimmed with pop rocks.
I’ve got to say, I was totally blown away by both how original and tasty these all were.  Granted, like any project, we had a few misfires…

Seven Minutes of Terror

  • 1 handle of Jack Daniels
  • 1 tube
  • 1 funnel
  • 2 friends
Calculate tube size required to allow 1 handle of jack to flow through
it in 7 minutes.  Attach appropriate tube to funnel.  Lay down on ground.  Have friend stand over you with funnel, tube, and jack.  Have second friend hold your mouth open.  Insert tube in mouth.  Have friend pour jack in funnel, maintaining appropriate head pressure for duration of 7 minutes.  Scream if desired.
Be sure to tune into NASA TV next Sunday around 10 pm Pacific.  Regardless of what happens, we’ll all likely have a few of the above in our system.  Happy landings!
Aaron Yazzie's brilliant MSL garnish.
Aaron Yazzie’s brilliant MSL garnish.

Gazing Skyward, Ever-Present


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With all the pollution, haze from chemtrails, and reflected light from our cities, we often fail to recognize the real significance of the SIZE of our VISIBLE universe (it is well possible that there is more out there, and that light has not yet reached us, 13.7 Billion Light Years away!).  Instead, we are left, often with barely a handful of stars and planets that are visible in the night sky.
Seeing only these, it becomes very easy to imagine ourselves the chosen creation of whatever god you wish to call upon.  It becomes easy to think ourselves unique and somehow important, relative to all we see around us.  We say to ourselves, “Behold my divine heritage!  I am to have dominion over all things of the earth!”  And as we run rampant, harvesting, extracting, and destroying, we content ourselves in the thought that somehow, all this will be magically renewed when Jesus, or whomever returns to make things all better.  As if the world were some magnificent “Dixie Cup” that is somehow recyclable.
This is why astronomy matters.  Why science matters.  It allows us to set aside our personal myths for a better reality, a bigger reality.  Why be contained within the smallness of human imagination and frailty.  Why allow ourselves to be restrained by implacable dogma?  Is it not better to consider that we are literally made of the stuff of the stars?  That within each of us, there resides eternity?  Have you not considered the implication of why we can only remember the past, and think on the future, but the present is ever present, and the only reality under which we can function with even a fraction of assurance that what we are experiencing is actually “real.”   In fact, the brain is unable to distinguish the difference between imagination, dreams, thoughts, or memories.  These abstractions exist only in the mind, and we learn to value them, often in place of valuing the present.
Gazing toward the stars we see a reflection of ourselves, the Truth of our existence.  For regardless of one’s religious myth or scientific tenant, it is undeniable that you are made of the stuff of the stars; and this grants to you citizenship within the cosmos as a living, breathing, (hopefully) thinking human being.  It means that you are also intrinsically related to everything around you.  You are not a separate creation, independent or superior, but a frail representation of cognitive emergence, chemically tied and molecularly bound to everything you can see, taste, hear, smell, and feel.  Yes feel.  From the ground under your feet to the air against your skin or the blazing sun in the sky, you are materially a part of, created by, and sustained by all of this, moment to moment.
THIS is your connection.  And it is every present.  In fact, it is so very important and so very overwhelming, that the mind is unable to do more than imagine anything either before or after this moment, the Present.  It is all we ever can know, and all we shall ever truly know.  It is the reality before our eyes that we regularly deny.
It is a subtle irony that in gazing into the heavens, we see things not as they are, but as they were.  Their past is our present, and were we to draw nearer to them, our perception — locked in the ever-present — would witness the slow progression of aeons pass from their past into their future, and finally our collective present; as stand upon a distant sandy shore gazing skyward along the starry path we have come.
Take a moment and review this brief video presentation.  Consider the relative impact of our dim understanding of the true, mind blowing magnitude of our cosmos.  Then ask yourself, with all that is going on about you, what is most important?  Then ask yourself, who told you that was important.  If you want to really know what is most important to you, you have only to consider what you spend most of your time doing.  Without question, that is what is most important to you.  Perhaps you should take some more time to look skyward, meditate upon all to which you are bound and connected, and then reflect on what is most important.  You may find the answer that comes to your mind refreshing.
Gazing Skyward, Ever-Present
Article By: Aubrey Forest
THE HUBBLE SPACE TELESCOPE:  DEEP FIELD IMAGERY

Healthier Carbonara (No Cream!)


One of my favourite pasta dishes is carbonara. It’s so hard to find an authentic one, even in Italian restaurants they add cream to the sauce. Partly this is because that’s what customers in the UK expect, an overly saucey, creamy gloop. There are a few restaurants (ones actually run by Italian families) that I know who will prepare it without cream, but I finally decided to make it myself.
As I’m trying to be healthier at the minute I didn’t use pancetta, but I found some Italian style ham cubes in the supermarket and thought that would make a pretty good, and low-fat, substitute. I did a bit of recipe research. Some used whole eggs, some just yolks. They all used about 1 egg per person. I decided to use one whole egg and one yolk. They also used about 1oz of parmesan per person. It is traditionally served with spaghetti, but I used tagliatelle instead.
The result was delicious, and so creamy I honestly don’t know why people add extra cream! It was also super easy and really quick, I don’t know why I haven’t made it myself before.
Ingredients:
Tagliatelle – 7oz/200g
Olive oil - ½ tablespoon
Cubed ham – 2.5oz/70g
Eggs – 1 whole and 1 yolk
Parmesan – 2oz/55g (grated)
Seasoning – salt & pepper
Equpiment: Frying pan, pasta pan, bowl, fork/whisk, spaghetti server
Method:
  1. Fry off the ham in the frying pan with the olive oil.
  2. Cook the pasta in a large pan of boiling water.
  3. In a bowl whisk together the eggs and parmesan, and season.
  4. Drain the pasta and return to the pan (off the heat), add the ham, and pour in the egg/parmesan mix.
  5. Stir really well until it starts to thicken and coats the pasta.
  6. Serve with plenty of black pepper.

OCULUS RIFT VIRTUAL REALITY HEADSET QUADRUPLES KICKSTARTER GOAL RAISING OVER $1 MILLION


The Oculus Rift is a new Virtual Reality headset which features a wide 110 degree field of view, high resolution displays; specifically two 640×800 displays which in fact combines to create the illusion of a panoramic 1280×800 as well as featuring stereoscopic 3D. It’s touted as providing a truly immersive experience that will allow you to step inside your favourite game, and explore it like never before.
With an original goal of $250,000 to allow the Oculus Rift to get into the hands of developers, this target goal has now been more than quadrupled raising over $1 million, with 27 days remaining.
With just a $300 donation, developers can fund the Kickstarter project, and get hold of an Oculus Rift development kit with an estimated delivery of December 2012.
The virtual reality headset has not only attracted attention from the Kickstarter audience, but also widely renowned games developers including Epic Games who have confirmed that its Unreal Engine will be optimized for the Oculus.
The developer kit with 720P 3D display, the wide degree of viewing and only PC compatibility for gaming is just the beginning, with the Oculus stating on Kickstarter that the consumer version when released could feature even higher resolution displays, and compatibility with PC, Mac, Consoles and Mobile Devices – providing developers build support into their games! Devs, what are you waiting for?!
Check out a video of the Oculus Rift after the break:

Source: Kickstarter

When Things Don’t Go To Plan


Sometimes we plan

We research, we organise, we schedule, wemake things happen.

Sometimes, we don’t wait for fate to deal us whatever hand he sees fit, sometimes, we grab that deck, we deal a game of solitaire and we finish the game, even if it means cheating.
Other times, we wake up in the morning, see a job ad for ranch help online that looks fairly interesting, casually apply, hoping they might have work when we leave Vancouver, and then we get a call three hours later that ends in a job offer, a day to pack and a bus journey to travel to a cattle and tourism ranch 7 hours away from the city we’ve called home for a month.

And by ‘WE’ I mean ‘I’

This happened yesterday. I spent the rest of the day cancelling appointments with temp agencies, cancelling plans with friends and telling my new housemate I’m leaving (granted, that didn’t take ALL day) and tomorrow I jump on the Greyhound at an ungodly hour of the morning and head to The Flying U Ranch.
It all sounds a little too good to be true; I’ll work 5 days a week and on my days off I get to ride the horses wherever I want. The ranch is a working cattle ranch as well as a guesthouse so there WILL be cowboys (yeehah!) AND they have a saloon on site – what more does a British traveler need from her Canadian experience?

AND THANK GOD!

I have spent the last week looking for work in Vancouver and it is BOOOORRRRRIIIINNNGGG!!

Sure, there are jobs, and there are temp agencies that will register me and test my skills (100% excel pass AND typing accuracy, if you’re interested), but I don’t actually WANT to work in an office or serve tables in the local vegan vegetarian natural wholefood cafe come candlelit eatery. I don’t want to do data entry and I don’t want to smile at tricky, ungrateful, demanding consumers when my feet are aching and I’m filthy from steam and grease. I can do that in London, and I’ll probably have to do both of those things when I come back, homeless and penniless. But until then, I’ll embrace all that is not British and go and enjoy some pure Canadian air for the next couple of months.
I will miss Vancouver. I’ve taken full advantage of the awesome thrift stores, enjoyed the hiking trails of North Van and the beaches around Kitsilano, met some fantastic people that have helped me navigate my way around and enjoyed unemployment in the best way I know how – in total denial.
The summer is a great time to visit, when there are loads of festivals and you can just sit outside and enjoy the sunshine. They have some incredible food markets, although I am considering personally petitioning that they put a limit on the amount of gelato each patron can buy – three is definitely too much, and it’s easy to bike, boat, walk, swim, run, eat, drink and be merry at all times of the day.
My plan is to come back – probably in October, and see how the city fares over halloween, but sometimes things don’t always go according to plan – and it’s not always a bad thing
Until next time, lots of love

The Walls of Glacier at 50mm


Here’s a little snapshot I took of the eroding walls directly above Siyeh Creek in Glacier National Park.  I’ve bought into the “as seen by our human eyes” landscape shots more and more.  Don’t automatically put your wide-angle lens (24mm, 17mm) on in the great outdoors.  Take in what your eyes see at 50mm.  Yup – 50mm is about equal to the field of vision of a human eye.  That’s why many people just love the “feel” of a 50.  I personally love the way the Glacier wall is prominent, and huge, while it is accented with the coniferous trees below, and not a touch of sky above.  And yes, these are BIG walls, but they seem even bigger if they can’t fit into a camera frame! [click on image to enlarge any picture]
Why fifty:  Well, there are at least 50 reasons – but I’ll only name a few here!
The level of detail is much better when one zooms in.  More opportunity for subject isolation (like this ripple above).  50mm is a perfect “tweener” size wherein you can see some large-scale elements, while tuning the audience in a bit more to patterns and details.  Less distortion is key as I get annoyed with how much distortion wide lenses have (even with “Corrections” in Camera RAW).  50′s are light and easy to carry.  50′s are fast – allowing you to create a narrow depth of focus shot with a sub $100 lens, and yes this is the BEST $100 you’ll spend as a Canon shooter.  [Although do note that on a 1.6 crop camera this lens becomes a 85mm equivalent, which is also cool, but much tighter.  You need to get the slightly pricier 35mm to get this effect].
Processing: These images were processed in OnOne software Layer’s program where burning, dodging and creating multiple exposures is pretty easy (and much cheaper than Photoshop). Throw-back cross-processing colors were developed in Adobe Lightroom.

Butterscotch Brownies


As a devout chocoholic, I am very skeptical of desserts without chocolate.
Recently, Grandmother has made me question my chocolate beliefs by introducing me to “butterscotch brownies.”
These things are so decadent and satisfying and buttery and fudge-y and delicious and very hard to stop eating.
This is not an “I’ll just have one bite” kind of treat.  It’s been clinically proven that they are impossible to resist.
I would like to thank Alyne for coming up with this recipe and then passing it on to Neda and then to Grandmother so she could pass it along to me and cause me to think critically about my confectionary beliefs.
Would you like me to stop rambling now and tell you how to make them?
Ok, if you insist.
The ridiculously simple ingredients:
  • 1 stick of butter
  • 2 cups of brown sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 cup self-rising flour
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1 cup chopped walnuts (or pecans. or both. just make sure you have 1 cup of nuts, ok? They are essential for the texture and salt factors)
And the absurdly easy directions:
1)      Preheat oven to 350 and lightly grease an 8”x8” pan to ensure that no morsel is left behind.
2)      Cream the butter and sugar
3)      Add beaten eggs and mix until well incorporated
4)      Add vanilla
5)      Mix in the flour
6)      Stir in the walnuts
7)       Bake for about 20 minutes or until edges start to pull away from pan and center falls a bit.  DO NOT OVERBAKE.  It is essential that these stay gooey.
Let cool for a few minutes so you don’t burn your mouth, but enjoy while still warm. Try not to eat the whole batch at once.   It will be harder than you think.
I can’t get over how delicious these butterscotch brownies are.
Do you want to know the craziest part of all?  I don’t think chocolate chips would improve this divine dessert.  In fact, I think chocolate would detract from it.
I am at a crossroads in my life.  A confectionary crossroads.
Y’all come back,

Tο Curiosity έστειλε την πρώτη εικόνα από το σημείο που βρίσκεται...


Με απόλυτη επιτυχία προσεδαφίστηκε το Curiosity στην επιφάνεια του Αρη. Στο τελευταίο στάδιο της προσεδάφισης η κάψουλα που κουβαλούσε το ρομπότ το άφησε να πέσει όσο πιο μαλακά γίνεται στο έδαφος χρησιμοποιώντας ειδικά κατασκευασμένα σύρματα.
Οπως ανακοίνωσε η NASA η διαδικασία προσεδάφισης του H κατάκτηση του Αρη συνεχίζεται...

ρομποτικού εξερευνητή Curiosity ολοκληρώθηκε με επιτυχία.

Ο κρατήρας Γκέιλ έχει διάμετρο 155 χιλιομέτρων και θεωρείται ιδανική τοποθεσία για τις έρευνες του Curiosity
Το Curiosity θα αναζητήσει ίχνη ζωής στον κόκκινο πλανήτη
Ο κρατήρας Γκέιλ που επιλέχθηκε ως τόπος προσεδάφισης του Curiosity. Με κύκλο σημειώνεται το ακριβές σημείο που είναι προγραμματισμένο να «πέσει» το ρομπότ
Στην πρώτη φάση της προσεδάφισης χρησιμοποιήθηκε αλεξίπτωτο
Καλλιτεχνική απεικόνιση του σκάφους που μετέφερε το Curiosity στον Αρη
Η πρώτη εικόνα που έστειλε το Curiosity αμέσως μόλις προσεδαφίστηκε. Πρόκειται για μια «δοκιμαστική» εικόνα που τραβήχτηκε στο πλαίσιο των δοκιμών των συστημάτων και των οργάνων του ρομπότ για αυτό και είναι θολή και χαμηλής ανάλυσης

6 φωτογραφίες

Ο δορυφόρος Mars Odyssey που παρακολουθούσε την διαδικασία προσεδάφισης έστειλε το πολυπόθητο σήμα στο κέντρο ελέγχου της αποστολής ότι το ρομπότ προσεδαφίστηκε στον κρατήρα Γκέιλ που ήταν το σημείο της προσεδάφισης του.

Οι επιστήμονες της NASA θα περιμένουν τώρα να δουν αν τα όργανα και τα συστήματα του Curiosity λειτουργούν ομαλά και δεν προέκυψε πρόβλημα σε κάποιο από αυτά κατά την διαδικασία εισόδου του ρομπότ στην ατμόσφαιρα του Αρη και της προσεδάφισης του στη συνέχεια.

Μέχρι στιγμής δεν φαίνεται να υπάρχει κάποιο πρόβλημα και μάλιστα το ρομπότ έστειλε την πρώτη εικόνα από το σημείο που στο οποίο βρίσκεται. Η φωτογραφία τραβήχτηκε με μια από τις κάμερες η οποία όμως δεν ήταν ακόμη σε πλήρη λειτουργία και για αυτό είναι ολίγον «θολή» και χαμηλής ανάλυσης. Δεν είχε όμως ιδιαίτερη σημασία η ποιότητα της όσο το γεγονός ότι η κάμερα λειτούργησε αμέσως μετά την προσεδάφιση.

Η αποστολή

To πυρηνοκίνητο ρομπότ θα εξερευνήσει τον Αρη για δύο χρόνια και βασικός του στόχος είναι η αναζήτηση κάποιου ίχνους ζωής στον κόκκινο πλανήτη. Με δεδομένο ότι στο μακρινό παρελθόν στην επιφάνεια του Αρη υπήρχε νερό είναι πιθανό να είχε κάνει την εμφάνιση της η ζωή. Υπάρχει επίσης η θεωρία ότι στο υπέδαφος του πλανήτη είναι πιθανό να υπάρχουν κάποιες μορφές ζωής έστω και σε μικροβιακό επίπεδο.

Δείτε τι συνέβη στο κέντρο ελέγχου της αποστολής μόλις επιβεβαιώθηκε ότι το Curiosity προσεδαφίστηκε χωρίς κανένα πρόβλημα.

FEMINIST WRITINGS: WOMEN IN MEDIA VS. THE MALE GAZE


I couldn’t come up with a good title for this article at first. I kept coming up with ‘Fucking Hell: This Again?’, or ‘Seriously Guys, Grow The Fuck Up’, or even yelling into a voice recognition program and letting whatever it translated to be the title. Then I calmed down a little, because I realized that behaving without restraint and maturity wasn’t going to get me anywhere.
Even if a lot of guys are complete doodyheads.
Okay! Moving on, the point of this article was in response to a recent internet event that sparked my interest. Specifically, an artist offered a rendering of Batwoman to various noteworthies in the comix biz at San Diego Comic-Con. Their rejection of her rendering would not have been that noteworthy or anger inducing, however, were it not for the way one person in specific phrased it:
“Her breasts are much too small and do not have the lift that superhero women should have. Her jawline is fat and her neck much too long. The style of her hair is clunky and does not flow in a sense that a super human would. Her hips, waist and thighs are too big and she honestly looks fat. No one is going to want to read a comic with a fat female protagonist. I honestly recommend looking at issues of Sports Illustrated to get the right anatomy. Those women are the peak of human perfection, and that is what we want in this industry.”
The rest of the response to this ‘critique’ can be found here.needless to say, I found the idea entertaining and wanted to share this contest with my friends on the interwebs, specifically Facebook.
Unfortunately, one among my circle of friends that responded negatively to this and posted a rebuttal. I will not recount the full argument here as it is too long, but suffice it to say it included pointing out the exceptions to the rule as proof that comics don’t hate ‘fat women’, and that ‘beauty is heroic’ (except, of course, when beauty is evil) and you tend to have more confidence in heroes that look to be in their prime, physically. Etc, etc.
I don’t like getting in fights, particularly not with my friends. But as a feminist, one that’s worked hard to see things that are self-evident to actual women and have been for decades, I feel more and more the need to speak out. So in this case I did. Maybe I could have presented my case better, but that’s something I’m still working on. In the end however, I have to draw the line on at least one point. During the argument, my friend made the following statement:
“Even regular television is filled with attractive people, so why, again, shouldn’t comics? We read comics to escape the mundane and believe in a world where people are fantastic and amazing and attractive. Why would I live an average life, looking at average people, to read a comic about an average super hero who looks like an ordinary schmuck?”
This argument made me think of a recent foray into the subject byMoviebob – in this case addressing the recent internet assault onAnita Sarkeesian regarding her starting her own webshow about how women are portrayed in videogames. While Moviebob is not the best proponent of feminist issues in geek culture, he’s at least pointed in the right direction, and has plenty of good things to say. But what is comes down to is this: when comics readers say ‘we want to see superheroines as being physically perfect, because we want to escape mundanity, yadda yadda’ what they are actually are saying is this: men want to see hot chicks kicking ass. And even the kicking ass can fall by the wayside if they just stand around showing great ass and cleavage shots, going around and looking sexy while all the men just look badass. Case in point:
There are no women out there that are loudly decrying Sarkeesianor Girl-Wonder.org or When Fangirls Attack or saying that women aren’t hyper sexualized , objectified, and disrespected in comic fandom. The bile, the dismissal, the argument that ‘this isn’t really a problem’ is all coming from men that feel like something’s being taken away from them.
(sigh)
You know what, guys, I understand. I do. I was right there with you. I was a guy that looked at Mary Jane in the peak of the 80s and 90s, all of her hot and sexy posing as a model as drawn by Erik Larsonand Todd McFarlane, and I was enthralled. But I also grew up. More importantly, I understand now that comics, that any media, should be about more than empowerment fantasy. Especially when there isn’t an equal playing field. When there are badass heroes, and sexy heroines, both of those things are being marketed at men. We aren’t seeing any beefcake aimed at female readers, and even if we were, that’s not the point. The point is that all characters in all media – whether comics, videogames, TV, movies, or books – should be recognized as individual people with desires, motivations and emotions that are equally important, equally real. That women don’t exist merely to be driving forces for the men, either sexual, emotional, or to take bloody vengeance for, a la Green Lantern and his girlfriend Alex DeWitt, the original Woman in a Refrigerator.
Women are not ‘here for us’, any more than we are here for them. We are all people, and we cannot fall into the trap that just because they are part of a fiction, does not make them less deserving of respect. Especially when so many people seem to still have a problem with treating actual women with respect. In fact, maybe if we treated women in media better, maybe it would help teach people to treat women better in the real world. It couldn’t hurt, at least.
In the end though, my friend asked me: ‘Are you willing to stop buying/reading any mainstream comics until things improve?’ To which I replied ‘What makes you think I haven’t already?’ Any comic purchase I’ve made in the last few years have all been indie – not all of them perfect – but I have pretty much given up on DC and Marvel for the moment. Maybe, maybe on a case by case basis if a fellow feminist tells me that it’s well done. Because I want to support steps in the right direction.
To any other arguments made in favor of the status quo – again, all made by men – my only further response is to play Anti-Comics-Feminist Bingo. I don’t know what else to say, except this: It’s not acceptable. It will never be acceptable, and even if it is merely asymptom of a larger problem in our culture,  I will nevertheless do my best to fight for that in the future.
Please do the same.

The Internet: Is it Redefining the Family Unit?


The other day, I was talking to a elderly internet friend of mine who’s almost like an uncle or a dad that I never had. My friends like to call him “Shiz.” Shiz and I had an interesting conversation about the internet and how more and more people are creating another life online. In American cultures and possibly other cultures around the world, the family unit is broken, backwards, and in some cases, completely destroyed. We have working parents who have no time to raise their kids or pay attention to them, some parents who have still act like they are teenagers, kids raising other kids their age, and relatives who avoid and distance themselves from other relatives. It’s not always the case with every family, of course, but many people are in similar situations with their own.
Although, it is often looked down upon, the internet is starting to become a more legitimate form of getting involved in the community. It is not just the local community that people can get involved in through the internet, but they can also get involved in the global community. It is not uncommon these days for people to forge friendships and develop feelings for each other over the internet. People who just can’t relate or forge a deep, meaningful relationship with those in their local community see the internet as a means for social interaction with others across the globe who they can better relate to. Some would even consider their online friends as family and go as far as to say that they know their online friends better than they know their own family. Although this idea of having an “online family” may seem comical, I can’t help but wonder if the internet is picking up the pieces and taking the concept of family to a whole different level above and beyond the traditional idea of family as relation by blood or by marriage.
In a free world where all people can easily travel anywhere at anytime on the globe like taking the daily commute, visiting your online family in real life may not be such a silly or impossible notion. Easy global travel often leads to less isolation and more involvement. It would make it easier to embrace and connect with all people all over the world. Idealistically, the idea of family could be extended to all different people regardless of distance, blood, or legal contract, which is almost like a radical quantum leap from what we consider “family” to be today.
Interesting video:
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